Non-monogamy and spirituality are two deeply personal aspects of life that intersect in meaningful ways for many individuals. The practice of non-monogamy, which can encompass various relationship structures such as polyamory, swinging, or ethical non-monogamy, involves the conscious choice to engage in multiple romantic or sexual relationships simultaneously with the informed consent of all parties involved. On the other hand, spirituality encompasses a wide range of beliefs, practices, and experiences that connect individuals to something greater than themselves, often involving personal growth, mindfulness, and a sense of interconnectedness.
What are some intersections between Non Monogamy and Spirituality?
Personal Growth and Self Discovery
Many individuals view non-monogamous relationships as a pathway for personal growth and self-awareness. Similarly, spirituality often involves a journey of self-discovery and expanding consciousness. By intertwining these aspects, individuals may seek to cultivate conscious and meaningful connections with multiple partners, guided by spiritual principles such as compassion, authenticity, and respect.
Let's get Ethical
Spirituality can often inform an individual's ethical framework, guiding them to approach relationships with mindfulness, empathy, and integrity. In the context of non-monogamy, individuals may seek to align their relationship practices with their spiritual values, emphasizing honesty, communication, and the well-being of all partners involved.
We are all connected
Many spiritual traditions emphasize the interconnectedness of all beings and the practice of unconditional love. For some, non-monogamous relationships may be seen as an opportunity to embody these principles by fostering deep connections with multiple partners and embracing love in its many forms, while honoring each person's individual journey.
Emotional Intellegence and Intimacy
Both non-monogamy and spirituality can involve a profound exploration of emotional and intimate connections. Individuals may seek to navigate the complexities of non-monogamous relationships with a sense of spiritual mindfulness, respecting the emotional needs and vulnerabilities of themselves and their partners.
What are some resources to help me explore Non Monogamy and Spirituality deeper?
From all the research I've done there aren't a ton of resources for those looking to dive deeper into their non monogamy and spirituality journey. That's one of the many reasons I feel so called to do this work and have these conversations regarding Non monogamy and spirituality. Here are some of the resources I have found to be helpful in my journey.
Spiritual Polyamory
POLYSECURE
Conscious Polyamory Blog
Spiritual Polyamory Blog Post
https://www.polyamory.org.uk/?p=119#:~:text=As%20mentioned%20at%20the%20beginning,in%20which%20freed
Love is not a possession, it is an energy that flows between two people
The most important aspect of non monogamy is that it's very much rooted in love. Love is not a possession, it is an energy that flows between two people. Love is also the highest spiritual ideal and by embracing non monogamous relationships open ourselves up to more versions of love. The work we do with self reflection has a lot to do with letting go of ego and self which are also very universal spiritual concepts . Non monogamy represents a culture of love and intimacy. Like spirituality, non monogamy can be a very transformative and deep experience for each individual. Non Mongamy can be a very enlightening and divine experience just like spirituality. Love is infinite and so is our capacity to love.
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